Tuesday, October 27, 2009

i find no peace

I find no peace, and all my war is done.
I fear and hope, I burn and freeze like ice, 
I fly above the wind, yet can I not arise,
And naught I have, and all the world I sieze on.
That looseth nor locketh holdeth me in prison,
ANd holdeth me not, yet I 'scape newise;
Nor letteth me live nor die at my devise, 
And yet of death it giveth me occasion. 
Without eyen I see, and without tongue I plain;
I desire to parish, and yet I ask health;
I love another, and thus I hate myself; 
I feed me in sorrow; and laugh in all my pain. 
Likewise displeaseth me both death and life,
And my delight is cause of this strife.
-Sir Thomas Wyatt the Elder

broke it down and now i appreciate it. poetry is a beautiful thing once you understand. 


i only appreciate fashion when art is involved. 

Thursday, October 22, 2009


  • #ruleofrelationships make sure you have rules in a relationship. you don't wanna look back and be like "damn, smh"
  • #ruleofrelationships don't claim you're wifey material and then act otherwise
  • #ruleofrelationships NEVER say it unless you mean it... the worst thing to have in a relationship is REGRET
  • #ruleofrelationships remember that sideline hoes r nothin more than bench warmers... wishin & hopin to get in the game but it never happens
  • #ruleofrelationships FB is just FB... dont treat it as your personal relationship investigator/detective. the ish you see on FB is nothing more than ish 
  • #ruleofrelationships get to know your significant other deeper than what you can find in their "about me" section of facebook
  • #ruleofrelationships ladies, if you got a good man, hold on to him tight. recognize that he's good and ignore all the outside bullshit
  • #ruleofrelationship cater to your man... they like to feel special to. cook, clean, back rub, new position. ha.
  • #ruleofrelationships never push a specific agenda in a relationship. let that shit naturally develop & grow. it'll be worth it in the end
  • #rulesofrelationships never question who's writing on your bf's wall... 9/10 its just some female tlkin to herself. ha
  • #rulesofrelationships don't get advice from your friend who's relationship is NOT working
  • #rulesofrelationships accept that person for everything they are and everything they aren't
  • #rulesofrelationships memorize at which point in the month she gets her cycle. it'll explain alot 
  • #rulesofrelationships be in tuned with each others needs and fulfill any wants in the process
  • #rulesofrelationships keep it spicy, updated, and fun 
  • #rulesofrelationships grow together 
  • #rulesofrelationships Know a woman's worth

 i'm no expert.


since the day i stepped foot into Need & Supply Co. and purchased my first pair of Jeffery Campbell shoes 4 years ago, i have been in love. his shoes are an embodiment of the work of a genius. no one does shoes like Jeffrey Campbell does shoes. i will wear a pair of his shoes until the sole wears off, no matter how many times my mother attempts to get me to throw them out. ladies, if you want fashionable shoes that are ultra comfy, seek Jeffrey. 
p.s. his shoes are heaven sent, its no coincidence that his initials are JC

Thursday, October 8, 2009

shut up chick, swallow

Study: Fellatio may significantly decrease the risk of breast cancer in women

"Women who perform the act of fellatio and swallow semen on a regular basis, one to two times a week, may reduce their risk of breast cancer by up to 40 percent, a North Carolina State University study found."

when i first read this, i couldn't help but wonder what made the researchers at North Carolina State University initially hypothesis this and then actually experiment.


double major with two jobs.
will make time soon.